What IF

Read my baby’s blog just now, and get amazed by her answer! Her answers are so funny yet so ‘real-life’. COOL!!!

On the other hand, I have different answers for some questions, and thus, I copy the questions and answered them in my own way (well, I had get the permission from my baby, she APPROVED, so, I am not plagiarized)

She called. Asked. Random questions.

(Q1) What if he knows you have got the right one now instead of him?
A1: Well, the condition is obvious enough, since he knows I got the right one now, so just leave me alone.
best friends?
(Q2) What if he treats you as good as other ？
A2: Ok, since there is no any differences, so, lets be friend instead of couples, fair enough!

(Q3) What if his best friend loves him like you do?
A3: I can’t control what his best friends probably will do on him, but he should knows the boundaries of friendship. I do not want to be a teacher to teach him how to settle this kind of condition step-by-step. Annoying. Please use his mind to think think think and -T-H-I-N-K!

(Q4) What if his academic performance not as good as yours?
A4: Academic performance isnt the thing I love on him, as long as he knows what is his strength and well-used on his own strengths, then will be good enough. Academic performance doesnt mean anything, his attitude towards life and me are the matter to me.

(Q5) What if he takes advantage of you?
Q5: If he really loves me, and I love him, I don really care if he takes advantage of me. I am willing to sacrifice for him. Want to take the advantage? Take la then.

(Q6) What if he promises or tells that he plans to get you something he can’t afford right now in the future?
A6: Well, I do not really trust with promises. Someone promised me a lot that he will do this and that and asked me to put trust on him, but in the end, turns up with broke up. As long as he really loves me, he can just prove it to me via his actions, not the promises. Promises are just nothing to me. Promises = “PRO-MISS” (professional in missing)

(Q7) What if he asks you to marry him now?
A7: If I really love him and he is the Mr. Right to me, why not? Let’s get married now. Come on baby! Well, after all, have to consider how he proposes and when he proposes, if not unique enough, please get off, if in the wrong timing, deserve the consequences then. LOL! Still dare to ask me to marry you?

(Q8) What if he follows what others advise him instead of taking your suggestions seriously?
A8: If this incident happened occasionally, it would not be a problem to me, perhaps my suggestions not acceptable. But, if this condition happens all the time, what for to ask for my suggestions, just ask others, that’s it! Do not take my suggestions seriously means that he does not respect me, follows what others advise him means he is a follower.

(Q9) What if he gets jealous seeing you with another best guy friend?
A9: Do not tell me jealous means care or love, that’s so ridiculous, a nonsense statement. I have my own social circle, and he is my best friend, what’s wrong if I interact with him? You can have your own best girl friends, but I can’t? What a reason! Unacceptable! If I have to stop from interacting with my males’ friend after being with him, okay, please go off, I’M NOT YOURS ANYMORE.

(Q10) What if he borrows money from you?
A10: It’s ok, depend on the amount and the reason he gives to me. If I think the reason is acceptable, then it wouldn't be a problem. But, after all, the decision is rely on the amount of trustworthy I had on him, still. If he does not have any bad record previously, it would not be a problem to borrow money from me.

(Q11) What if he apologizes with flowers as gift & sincerity?
A11: Okay, he would be totally disqualified. When in the honey-moon stage, he gives flowers; when want to apology, gives flowers too, so, where is the point? The flower represents nothing. And thus, flowers mean nothing to me, even though I am happy to receive flowers, but, I prefer to receive something more valuable and special if he wants to apology to me. Yet, be practical man!

(Q12) What if he kisses you in public?
A12: Depend on where, when, and why. Or else, deserve the consequences. Being the focus of the public represents romantic? Bullshit. If he does not have a valid reason on why he did so, what he probably will get are S-L-A-P-S!!!

(Q13) What if he doesn't love you anymore?
A13: Simple, if doesnt love me anymore, just end the relationship, no point to drag it. Be frank instead of being a ‘relationship-dragger'. Take out your gut and be F-R-A-N-K.

(Q14) What if he gambles?
A14: If he gambles during the festival time or occasionally for fun, it’s ok to me. If he is a full-time gambler, it’s okay, married someone else.

(Q15) What if he asks for cohabitation?
A15: No way, as Jocey said, according to Interactive Psych, the probabilities of end up a relationship among cohabitating couples are high. So, no way, I don want to risk my own marriage. Well, guai guai, lets get 'cohabitate' after we married then. LOL~

(Q16)What if he's of another race?
A16: So? What’s wrong with that? No racism. But, sorry, I can’t accept though.

(Q17) What if he's of another religion?
A17: Erm... no comment, i don think this issue would be an issue.

(Q18) What if he runs illegal business?
A18: Hmmm, I recognized this question, Jocey asked me before when she was in my car. I had forgotten what I asked her. Well, possibly I will leave him regardless I know it before or after in the relationship, I just can’t accept this happen.

(Q19) What if he proposes to you in public with a huge diamond ring?
A19: I said I hate to be the attention of others in the public!!! The social pressure is strong, so, do not ever expect I will accept the propose in the public. I will just walk away and leave him alone there. This is not romantic.

(Q20) What if he's moving over to another country (e.g. S'pore) as required by working condition?
A20: If we are not yet married, I will agree he moves over to another country to further his career path into more advanced. If we are married, but do not have child yet, I will still make the same decision, move for your good and same to the family. But, if we are married, and we have children, come on, let’s pray together.

(Q21) What if he insists to stay with his parents even though you both get married?
A21: No comments. It’s totally fine to me regardless live with his parents or only 2-peoples-world. Both are accpetable.

(Q22) What if he wants kids but you don't?
A22: Well, I like kids, and thought of want to give birth to 2 kids. But, since the day I watched the child-birth video clip on YOU-TUBE, they’re really freak me off, and thus, it become a phobia to me. I’m still considering if want to have own kids in future.

(Q23) What if he buys a house (single/double storey... whatever) for marriage with 3 rooms only?
A23: So far so good, he may buys house with 3 rooms for marriage for the first few years, one as the study or working room, one as master room, and one as his back-up room. LOL. But, frankly, 3 rooms wouldn’t be enough for a family, what about my kids? Where they supposed to sleep and study? AT LEAST need 4 rooms – one is master room, one as his back-up room, one as working room and another one for kid’s room. Well, seriously, it's doesnt matter how big size the house is, as long as we stay in comfortably and happy, then it would be more than enough d.

(Q24) What if he's announced bankcrupt after marriage?
A24: Won’t leave him for sure. Money doesn’t mean the intensity of our marriage, so, bankcrupt only wat, accept it then since it’s happened. No point to ask for divorce, or argue on it. That’s call S-T-U-P-I-D if the couple do so.