Friday, September 28, 2007

Questioning

I have lots of things in my mind actually, I'm so wanna to share all of them, wanna to express my feelings, but… don know why, all of them were just stuck in the middle of my mind… WHY?? What's going wrong? I wonder to know bout it…

Well, sometimes really confused that:


(1) What makes a man and what makes a woman… Ppl used said that woman makes by water, because she could cry easily… But what about men? What makes them? If women could cry easily related with what make them, then izzit means that men shouldnt cry since they are not make by water? Funny.

(2) Why ppl who beyond the age of getting married always complained that their life are incomplete without another one in their life? Why they seem to be so worried about the matter why they get into marriage so late Would they become more happier IF there is someone occur in their life then? Why ppl just cant stay happy and enjoy with their single life? Why must involved another one? Izzit a NEED? Social pressure? Compliance?

(3) Why he still wanna to grab her away from the guy even though he knew that the girl indeed in a relationship? Well, normally when ppl facing such situation, the following statements sure appear in their mind: “She is still single and available if she not yet married; She still got another options to choose IF she haven’t married yet” What u think with these statements? To me, it is a rubbish!! It's just too funny. Why want to be the 3rd party of other relationship? Why want to create an oppoturnity for them to cause up betrayal? But surprisingly, ppl always claimed that “love is not the matter of fair and justice, so, whenever u meet someone who u really love with, just go ahead and woo them, don miss out the chance, don bother too much, do it for ur own happiness and etc”

(4) Why we have conflict? Problem? As well as the dilemma in life? Well, it will sounds so freak if none of us ppl experience any three of these. Since so, why ppl still want to complain them again and again ya? Nothing better to do than complaining? Human… sigh.. contradicting.. and demending.

(5) What determined a good gf? A good bf? A good friend? A good listener? Different ppl possessed different perspectives towards the same things… So, never be judgemental, never expect ppl will just behave as the way u like or the way u prefer. Do not always stay inside the comfort zone, accept others no matter what. The qualifications that u set might not as similar as other, so, do not blame other not understand on you, instead, you are the one who supposed to self-reflect, try to accept others and try to understand others. Don't be too self-centered. We are not born to please you and treat u good.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

i'll make it short.

mm..man is made of ego while woman is made of tolerante..person who i met in uni made me have this conclusion. hahah. especially among my lecturer..too ego la..what's wrong wearin corporate style??why we must obey their need?bull shit la.. at this moment still have discrimination meh?mayb have la..yet GUY cant deny the contribution of WOMEN..hallo guy, your mom is a guy meh?!

human being will NEVER AND EVER get satisfy. e.g. when u get a new phone you will tends to change when there is a new phone..human will only cherish when they lost the thing that seems tiny in first yet important when it disappered.

and human is greedy (-ve way).
everyone of us only live once so we wanna try everything before we die..(+ve). which one you prefer?you are quite extreme so i bet you will choose -ve aspect.hahhaha..

gtg la..having class.

Mc13
*keep posting ya..i'll catch up with you.

alexagoh said...

hmm..i've thought about the last questions for many many zillion years adi~
but then i sorta agree with ur answer at 1st...but after given it a few thoughts, if we think like that, then we're the one stereotyping and being judgemental of whether who's selfish and who's not. haha~ this is philosophy pilosophy man! life is never perfect and is always contradicting!