Friday, January 25, 2008

human should know this...

We are not your puppet, do not ever try to control us. It's enough! Ya, you could be dominant in your business, but not in the relationship. Its a reciprocal relationship, needs tolerances and mutual understanding, if you keep on have the urge to be the dominant role in the relationship, please get off. Well, even if you don want to get off, I don think your relationship will be everlasted, unless, your partner really crazy about you, cant live without you. God bless you and HER too..

Yes, your another should not restricted to be your lover, but he or she could be your best friend either. If there is anything that needs to discuss, can share it with your significant ones, do not hesitate on the self-esteem or man's faces. He or she might not helps you in certain things, but at least, he or she able to knows what you worried of at that moment. Although he or she couldn't gives you a hand, but his or her hugs, understanding and empathy definitely can delighting your days. Sigh, stereotypes really headache, because of stereotypes, men tend to keep what they worried to self instead of share them with their significant ones. They scare of the misunderstanding from their partners. Yet, social identity stressed in daily life too, men tend to suppress their own emotion from others, they just wont simply expose their sadness to others, as if cry is a sign of pride defeated. Come one man~ just express your emotion to your beloved. Everyone needs space to take off the 'mask' and everyone has the right to be weak. Your significant ones is your destination to reveal your real self.

You succeed in business doesn't mean you will be ok in relationship. You are always the failure if you never learn to be humble and tolerate with your significant ones. The tactics and the styles you used in business may work in the business world, but they are not useful in relationship. Advantages are taken from both side in the business world, but not in relationship. What a relationship needed are: empathy, understanding, love but not sexual intercourse, and commitment (everything are in mutual styles, lack of each side, the relationship will probably certified as a death).

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