Tuesday, May 13, 2008

看了网友的部落格,很赞同他的一句话:“说了夫妻两人相处之道,在于‘让’,而让的出发点在于爱,因为彼此相爱,所以需要让(不放忍让,因为忍是有限度的),爱可以包容一切彼此的缺点。”

我很赞同这一点。
因为爱他,就会接受他的一切一切,哪怕彼此的身份地位,学历背景,性格有多么大的差别。
因为爱他,所以就选择接受他一切的不完美。
因为爱他,绝不会连一点点的瑕疵都看不过去。
因为爱他,他的一切一切(不管是优点或缺点)都变得很动人优美。
因为爱他,所以就会毫无限度的包容。
因为爱他,就会很自然的与他慢慢妥协,慢慢等待。
因为爱他,所以你不会希望看到他受苦。
因为爱他,心里根本就不舍得让他为自己受苦。

就是因为爱,把一切的不可能都变得有可能。
就是因为爱。。。
有时候,不完美才是完美的,缺陷美。

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

mmmmm
if rang early then mayb wont happen the incident liao
but if u rang then not ur persoanlity also

if u choose that guy not able rang u then why u still choose wo
mayb when he rang u u not really realise

however rang mayb is a solution but yet not the best 1 i prefer communicate
dont know u like o not also tell ur partner what going on u
u dont expect people to understand u without anyword from u
once o two mayb can but how about other ????

is time u should realise it ur own philosophy seem like have limitation

傲慢天蝎 said...

well, every philosophy has its own limitation, same to mine. And, I guess you are misunderstood on somehting, which is I never speak out even a word which ensure my so-called philosophy is a perfect one. But, seriously, I accept your comment and I am open to any critique from you. Thanks=)

Anonymous said...

what's rang?

傲慢天蝎 said...

his 'rang' is 让